How often do we regret about the things which we couldn't do? Yes, Most of us do most of the times. We don't value the time and situations which we could have celebrated.
Even after reading multiple times the line "We don't value things or people, until we loose them". One such I am missing now is my dad and celebrations missed along with him.
8 years of suffering he had gone through because of paralysis only comes to mind, whenever I think of him.
Greatest festival for any individual is birthday, but we never celebrated his birthday, even when we used to celebrate all our siblings birthdays. He himself didn't know his own birthday and never shown interest to celebrate. Now I feel dejected that, we could have created those happy memories of celebrations of his birthday.
Friends, never ever wait for any special occasion to celebrate, make each moment as special as possible to celebrate with all your loved ones. We never know, what is there in future.
We take people as granted especially the ones we care more and we love more. But that should not happen. What if we come to know that loved ones are not going to be there tomorrow. Then the way look at them, the way we treat them changes drastically and automatically. That's how we need to treat every other person all the time.
My parents since my childhood wanted me to buy my own car and wanted to go around in that happily. But that never happened, bought the car when he was already paralyzed. Ride was always to hospital. Wanted to share my happiness of owning a house, but that never happened, as he was bedridden then, couldn't come to house warming ceremony and also never got chance to visit the house. Left the world without seeing his son's house. Happiness of buying is only dieing.
Only thing comes to my mind now is, we could have created happy memories.
Always its our choice to be happy or not be happy....
Signing off,
aMAr
Don't wait for tomorrow, just celebrate life...
Even after reading multiple times the line "We don't value things or people, until we loose them". One such I am missing now is my dad and celebrations missed along with him.
8 years of suffering he had gone through because of paralysis only comes to mind, whenever I think of him.
Greatest festival for any individual is birthday, but we never celebrated his birthday, even when we used to celebrate all our siblings birthdays. He himself didn't know his own birthday and never shown interest to celebrate. Now I feel dejected that, we could have created those happy memories of celebrations of his birthday.
Friends, never ever wait for any special occasion to celebrate, make each moment as special as possible to celebrate with all your loved ones. We never know, what is there in future.
We take people as granted especially the ones we care more and we love more. But that should not happen. What if we come to know that loved ones are not going to be there tomorrow. Then the way look at them, the way we treat them changes drastically and automatically. That's how we need to treat every other person all the time.
My parents since my childhood wanted me to buy my own car and wanted to go around in that happily. But that never happened, bought the car when he was already paralyzed. Ride was always to hospital. Wanted to share my happiness of owning a house, but that never happened, as he was bedridden then, couldn't come to house warming ceremony and also never got chance to visit the house. Left the world without seeing his son's house. Happiness of buying is only dieing.
Only thing comes to my mind now is, we could have created happy memories.
Always its our choice to be happy or not be happy....
Signing off,
aMAr
Don't wait for tomorrow, just celebrate life...
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